CEREMONY WRITING GUIDE

A custom ceremony written from your love story.

The Tapestry Event Co. Ceremony Writing Guide is for couples who have invited a friend or family member to officiate their ceremony. Take the guesswork and stress out of the writing process. This step-by-step guide tells you and your officiant exactly how to create a custom ceremony based on your love story. You will get the opportunity to share the stories and values that make up your marriage. Your officiant will get clear instructions, language, templates, ideas, and best practices for writing your ceremony. And together, you’ll have a format for collaborating that saves you time and energy and creates a unique ceremony script. Give yourself the gift of an authentic moment of marriage that will set the foundation for many years of partnership to come!


 

“When I was asked to officiate, I felt honored but also clueless about authoring a ceremony…Then I was given the Ceremony Writing Guide and it simplified everything… It drew out my best creative writer!”

— Alec G.


The writing guide includes:

  • Questionnaires for the couple about their values, love story, and desires for the ceremony

  • Writing warm-ups, advice, and exercises

  • Sample outlines for different types of ceremonies

  • In-depth descriptions on each section that could be included in a ceremony

  • Prompts, sample writing, and sentence starters to get the juices flowing

  • Guidance on what to look for to edit your ceremony draft

  • A checklist of packing items and tips for the day of the ceremony

  • One love letter from us to the couple and one to the officiant

  • 55+ pages of expertise and love, shared with you

Have more questions? Check out our FAQ Live on Instagram with the author of the guide, Kate Faoro Wright.



Written with love by our Tapestry officiant, from years of experience writing personalized ceremonies for couples. We provide guidance, structure, and inspiration for amateur officiants to write a ceremony in collaboration with a couple. We also provide best practices, professional tips, and coaching on rehearsal and day-of considerations so that the experience of officiating is smooth and settled.